As you go through your day, are you aware of what really makes your heart sing? Do you know what pulls you down? We were given this life to live it boldly. You were created to do great things. You have gifts that are needed to be shared. How do you know what’s working in your life? Pay attention to how you are feeling. If you are feeling good or great, you are moving in the direction of your true self. If it doesn’t feel good, somehow you are not heading into the direction of your desires. Take the time to discover what is true for you. See how your flame is burning each day. Is it burning brightly or is it a diminished flame? Each day for 30 days, take the time at the end of the day to reflect on your day. Write down the things you were pleased with, the things that made you feel good and smile. Then do the same thing with the things that pulled you down. Rate each one on a scale of 1-10, 10 being the highest. Write out why each made you feel that way. For example, today I walked Hefner Lake with one of my friends. The lake route is 9.5 miles.  It would be a 10 for me. My flame is still shining brightly from it. The reason why it is a 10 for me is because it is a way I push myself to stay healthy, and I get to share it with someone special to me. Then the key is discover the patterns you see as you do this for a month.  Keep doing more of that which fills you up and eliminate the things that you do not like. You are in charge of your life. You can make other choices and create the life you want. Discover how easy it is to turn your life in a new direction when you become aware of how the choices you make impact how brightly your flame burns.