As I grew up, Christmas was always the biggest holiday our family celebrated. As we grew up, three of us moved out of state. We were all in different states. We all made “a deal” that we would come home for Christmas. It was our way of staying close to each other even though our daily lives were off in different directions. It was so important to each of us to keep that sense of family. How are you keeping connected to those you love or care about? What are important commitments you have made with your family? What’s most important to you during these holidays? Are you making sure that happens for you? You are in charge of creating the life you love and what’s important to you.